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But a Harvard study shows that the earnings penalty to MBAs for taking a job interruption of as little as 18 months, within 15 years of receiving a bachelors degree, is an astounding 41 percent. Although career reentry expert Carol Fishman Cohen explains it is important audlt note that survey participants may intentionally choose a lower-compensated job post-career break for reasons ranging from simply wanting a less stressful job to wanting more schedule flexibility.

Fucking for girl place in Czech Republic the non-monetary costs can be every bit as daunting. Walking away from my job was tinged with the feeling of failure. Even in the face to two beautiful little Iowa adult ladiess bear looking for mama and another on the way, it was hard to find a narrative to tell myself:. You can't tell yourself that you did not love that job anyway, because that is a reason to leave a particular position, not the workforce.

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The questions began not long after my youngest was born: If I had been asked the question once, I could have ignored it, but the hundreds of times I have heard this question suggests that my job as a stay-at-home mom might be a brief foray but not one those around me believed should last. Yet here is the problem.

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Sheryl Sandberg points out, "Women who take time out of the workforce pay a big career penalty. Only 74 percent of professional women will rejoin the workforce in any capacity, and only 40 percent will return to full-time jobs.

Those who do rejoin will often see their earnings decrease dramatically. Experts will tell you that while a certain diminishment of earning power and professional stature comes with leaving the workplace that part time work is the best remedy to ease reentry.

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But when I look around me at the class moms, PTO officers and teacher appreciation lunches, I know that I am not the only one.

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